Healthy relationships aren’t just about avoiding the
wrong kind of person or finding the right kind of
person. Healthy relationships are a two-way street.
Two people, each becoming the best they can be
for themselves—and eventually, for one another. So
before you figure out who you want to spend a lot
of your time with, you might want to turn the focus
to yourself and make sure you’re growing and
taking responsibility for your own flaws.
wrong kind of person or finding the right kind of
person. Healthy relationships are a two-way street.
Two people, each becoming the best they can be
for themselves—and eventually, for one another. So
before you figure out who you want to spend a lot
of your time with, you might want to turn the focus
to yourself and make sure you’re growing and
taking responsibility for your own flaws.
1. The Desperate Chick:
The desperate Chick’s are really the popular one’s…
At one point in your life, we must have met this
type…This type of girl will seem sweet at first, until
she starts talking about your wedding location, how
many kids she wants and the name of the first
daughter she will have with you..lol
All this will happen after the first date! When a
woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch
out. She will love you, a desperate girl will go as far
as showing a fake engagement ring to her friends
and lie you proposed to her the other night..
She sacrifice a lot for you, but the day things go
bad in the relationship.. This type of girl will do
everything to mess up your life…If she can’t have
you.. no body else will.
The desperate Chick’s are really the popular one’s…
At one point in your life, we must have met this
type…This type of girl will seem sweet at first, until
she starts talking about your wedding location, how
many kids she wants and the name of the first
daughter she will have with you..lol
All this will happen after the first date! When a
woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch
out. She will love you, a desperate girl will go as far
as showing a fake engagement ring to her friends
and lie you proposed to her the other night..
She sacrifice a lot for you, but the day things go
bad in the relationship.. This type of girl will do
everything to mess up your life…If she can’t have
you.. no body else will.
2.. The Way Too Critical Woman:
This type of women will constantly show
disapproval in everything you do… And this
disapproval will come in on a daily basis.. She will
find faults or mistakes in everything you do….
I think this is the worst of all the women you could
date. According to proverbs, a woman like this is
like the sound of a leak dripping: constant,
annoying and problematic. And just like a leak, this
woman will drain you.
She’ll leave you questioning your value, your
significance and your worth. You’ll never feel
appreciated under the constant cloud of criticism.
See the good in yourself, and find a woman who
can do the same. You need someone that will
support and advise you and not bring you down..
Just stay clear..
This type of women will constantly show
disapproval in everything you do… And this
disapproval will come in on a daily basis.. She will
find faults or mistakes in everything you do….
I think this is the worst of all the women you could
date. According to proverbs, a woman like this is
like the sound of a leak dripping: constant,
annoying and problematic. And just like a leak, this
woman will drain you.
She’ll leave you questioning your value, your
significance and your worth. You’ll never feel
appreciated under the constant cloud of criticism.
See the good in yourself, and find a woman who
can do the same. You need someone that will
support and advise you and not bring you down..
Just stay clear..
3. Ms. Flirtatious:
The flirtatious girls are always very seductive.. She
will win you over with her seductive glances and
her flattering words. Guys love this type of girls,
everybody does.. But, the problem with this type of
girls, you’ll start noticing her flirting isn’t contained
to just you, she flirts wit every body. The way she
talks and touches your roommate, or the way she
giggles flirtatiously at your best friends jokes,
glaces she gives your friends.
It’s one thing to be flirtatious as an avenue of
affection within a relationship, it’s a whole other
thing when you’re marked by your flirtatious way.
Recognize this one quickly, and move on…
The flirtatious girls are always very seductive.. She
will win you over with her seductive glances and
her flattering words. Guys love this type of girls,
everybody does.. But, the problem with this type of
girls, you’ll start noticing her flirting isn’t contained
to just you, she flirts wit every body. The way she
talks and touches your roommate, or the way she
giggles flirtatiously at your best friends jokes,
glaces she gives your friends.
It’s one thing to be flirtatious as an avenue of
affection within a relationship, it’s a whole other
thing when you’re marked by your flirtatious way.
Recognize this one quickly, and move on…
4. The Gold Digger:
The Gold Digger is just there to drain you.. no
strings attached…The Gold-Digger will compliment
you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of
car you drive, where you live, what you do for a
living.
These girls don’t play, there is a huge chance she
is not just dating you alone.. she has a Sugar daddy
some where in the city.. she’ll constantly size you
up within the first five minutes and drop you just as
quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t
take her shopping anymore.
These types of women will just suck your wallet dry
and leave drop you like a bad habit. Fortunately,you
can usually see this type coming from a mile away.
She wants to write out the names of all her
designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter
and Facebook.
The Gold Digger is just there to drain you.. no
strings attached…The Gold-Digger will compliment
you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of
car you drive, where you live, what you do for a
living.
These girls don’t play, there is a huge chance she
is not just dating you alone.. she has a Sugar daddy
some where in the city.. she’ll constantly size you
up within the first five minutes and drop you just as
quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t
take her shopping anymore.
These types of women will just suck your wallet dry
and leave drop you like a bad habit. Fortunately,you
can usually see this type coming from a mile away.
She wants to write out the names of all her
designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter
and Facebook.
5. The Bimbo:
This type of woman can’t obtain a Secondary
School Leaving Certificate but managed to secure a
PhD in the science of the bedroom, she knows
every sex techniques, she knows all the names of
the clubs in Lagos, PH and Abuja. This is an
intellectually challenged and lazy girl who looks
great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth.
Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the
physical realm and unless you’re just after one-
night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl
home to meet Mom and Dad.
The majority of girls you see on the streets
everyday fall into this category.. You need some
one that will build you, challenge you.. don’t go for
any thing less.. There are a lot of great girls
around.. find them!
This type of woman can’t obtain a Secondary
School Leaving Certificate but managed to secure a
PhD in the science of the bedroom, she knows
every sex techniques, she knows all the names of
the clubs in Lagos, PH and Abuja. This is an
intellectually challenged and lazy girl who looks
great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth.
Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the
physical realm and unless you’re just after one-
night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl
home to meet Mom and Dad.
The majority of girls you see on the streets
everyday fall into this category.. You need some
one that will build you, challenge you.. don’t go for
any thing less.. There are a lot of great girls
around.. find them!
6. Drama Queen:
Drama with her momma, drama with her best
friend, drama with her boss at work. This gal is
characterized by drama everywhere she goes, and
she tells you all about it. But the drama isn’t
necessarily the dangerous part in this kind of
woman, it’s the underlying belief that it’s always
everyone else’s fault. This woman is to be avoided
because she doesn’t understand the meaning of
taking ownership and responsibility of her life and
relationships. And trust me, that blame-game will
quickly become a part of your relationship, too.
Drama with her momma, drama with her best
friend, drama with her boss at work. This gal is
characterized by drama everywhere she goes, and
she tells you all about it. But the drama isn’t
necessarily the dangerous part in this kind of
woman, it’s the underlying belief that it’s always
everyone else’s fault. This woman is to be avoided
because she doesn’t understand the meaning of
taking ownership and responsibility of her life and
relationships. And trust me, that blame-game will
quickly become a part of your relationship, too.
7. Aggressive Women:
This girl will break your head, rent a thug to beat
you up in one quick swift, if she ever get in a minor
disagreement with you. Male Domestic violence is
very real… This type of girls are hard to detect
early in a relationship.. Because most of the time,
they come out as gentle and loving…
This girl will break your head, rent a thug to beat
you up in one quick swift, if she ever get in a minor
disagreement with you. Male Domestic violence is
very real… This type of girls are hard to detect
early in a relationship.. Because most of the time,
they come out as gentle and loving…
8. The Clingy Girl:
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere
or do anything without the company of her man.
She’ll call you 20 times a day and fly off the handle
anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior.
This type of woman will smother any chance of you
missing her by insisting that you spend every
waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out
with the boys or spend any significant amount of
time with anyone else.
This woman doesn’t really have a life outside of her
romantic relationships. If you find yourself warding
off incessant phone calls about nothing from your
brand new girlfriend you may have inadvertently
landed a clinger.
or do anything without the company of her man.
She’ll call you 20 times a day and fly off the handle
anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior.
This type of woman will smother any chance of you
missing her by insisting that you spend every
waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out
with the boys or spend any significant amount of
time with anyone else.
This woman doesn’t really have a life outside of her
romantic relationships. If you find yourself warding
off incessant phone calls about nothing from your
brand new girlfriend you may have inadvertently
landed a clinger.
9. Mysterious’ women:
They will hide everything from you, and it doesn’t
necessary mean she don’t like you, she just don’t
want to share details with you…There’s nothing at
all wrong with a girl taking a little while to open up,
but there’s a limit. Girls like this their personality
may intrigue you at first, but if you pursue the
relationship too far you may quickly find yourself
going no where.. communication is the key to a
successful relationship. If you’re unable to get to
know a girl within a few weeks of dating her, back
out.
They will hide everything from you, and it doesn’t
necessary mean she don’t like you, she just don’t
want to share details with you…There’s nothing at
all wrong with a girl taking a little while to open up,
but there’s a limit. Girls like this their personality
may intrigue you at first, but if you pursue the
relationship too far you may quickly find yourself
going no where.. communication is the key to a
successful relationship. If you’re unable to get to
know a girl within a few weeks of dating her, back
out.
10. Indecisive:
Lastly, the indecisive…A woman like this will take
your heart on quite a ride, because she doesn’t
really know what she wants. One moment she’s
into you, and the other moment she’s confused and
wants to take a step back. This internal struggle is
not going to be resolved anytime soon, so do
yourself a favor and find someone who’s just as
into you as you are into them. Healthy relationships
are marked by peace, not by constant doubt and
regret.
She will drag you real bad, so much.. you will hate
yourself for ever meeting her, then she will dump
you when you’ve made future plans together
Being single and searching through the streams of
women to find that one true love can be fun, but
there are times to pursue a relationship and times
to fold your cards and await the next hand. Some
women you just won’t win with. So save yourself
the time and effort that goes into a relationship
destined for failure, and spend time instead looking
for the right girl in the right places.
Lastly, the indecisive…A woman like this will take
your heart on quite a ride, because she doesn’t
really know what she wants. One moment she’s
into you, and the other moment she’s confused and
wants to take a step back. This internal struggle is
not going to be resolved anytime soon, so do
yourself a favor and find someone who’s just as
into you as you are into them. Healthy relationships
are marked by peace, not by constant doubt and
regret.
She will drag you real bad, so much.. you will hate
yourself for ever meeting her, then she will dump
you when you’ve made future plans together
Being single and searching through the streams of
women to find that one true love can be fun, but
there are times to pursue a relationship and times
to fold your cards and await the next hand. Some
women you just won’t win with. So save yourself
the time and effort that goes into a relationship
destined for failure, and spend time instead looking
for the right girl in the right places.
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